50%-50%

(Which is more like 100%-100%)

Lately, I have realised that the quality of relationships, are based on your responsibility TO someone instead of, FOR someone. 

Even though the concept of being independent and self-sufficient had already been brought up in my awareness, a new perspective is growing inside of me.

So what do I mean by 50%-50% (which is more like a 100%-100%)?

I mean that we, every participant in a situation, would start to take 100% responsibility of our thoughts, deeds, beliefs and also doubts to be counted upon, in any situation related with someone, to serve as meaningful to our interaction.

Quantum entanglement is a physical phenomenon that occurs when a group of particles are generated, interact, or share spatial proximity in a way such that the quantum state of each particle of the group cannot be described independently of the state of the others, including when the particles are separated by a large distance.

Let’s say, I ask for a friend to do some grocery shopping for the two of us, because I want to cook a nice meal for him. And, in an all lovely manner, he accepts and agrees to participate in this invitation. We discuss what needs to be bought and so he goes in the direction of shopping… 

And here I want to invite you to stop for a moment and think about what you are left with emotionally and mentally? Well maybe you feel like you have forgotten to tell about some ingredient on the recipe, but there is more about those feelings I want to expand on. How do you feel? And how will you feel during the time he goes shopping?

And these questions are somehow abstract, not only because they seem a little irrelevant or exaggerated, but also because your feelings change all the time and seem to be unreliable at times. 

So how can we make sense of this? And why would it be useful to make sense of my thoughts, feelings or doubts?

Human beings are born like super empathic beings and I have seen many, deny this. Between birth and about 1 year, the dominant brain frequency of babies resonate to delta wave length (0.5 and 4 Hz) which allows them to experience a sort of hypnosis of unity consciousness. They cannot differentiate themselves from others, neither can they move properly(it is more like a fee-e-e-ling frequency then a doing frequency). Which means that all the emotions of their parents or surroundings feel like theirs. A fully immersive emotional experience with no personal choice. Their identity feels like they are everyone. Why is this important to know? Because as this brain wave frequency is dominant in children, It is not extinct in adults. Which means that at some fundamental level of your consciousness you experience the unity of all the feelings of your surrounding.

Ok… but how do I make sense of this…? What is me and what is theirs…? You ARE a physical in-dividual(un-dividable) be-ing capable of connecting to an energetic field where we are all ONE.

Coming back to the example before, there is one more thing to consider. 

By interacting with something or someone you also enter into quantum entanglement, which means that after I interacted with my friend and he leaves shopping, I am quantumly entangled with him and “the action from a spooky distance”(Albert Einstein quote) can happen…

Which implies that when I start to feel myself after he left and I stay with the feelings that came up in our interaction, we would still be able to interact or communicate from a distance.

As this level of interaction happens on a feeling level, I found that it is easier to approach the communication by questioning yourself.

Do I feel confident? Do I feel anxious, angry, or do I have a fear of missing out?

Do I care if this friend will carry the grocery shopping like I intended? Will he buy all the food I want? 

By asking these questions(and many others are possible), you simply tune your attention on the shared(entangled) feelings and your personal feelings as well.

Alright, alright… so why should I take 100% ownership of my reality? What’s the deal with this 50%-50%(which is more like a 100%-100%)?

Well, this article was intended to highlight the quality of relationships and that means that there are at least two people involved in carrying a task (a relationship happens when you relate to someone). 

So in the example given, both agree to make a nice meal happen. Which means that the other is as much responsible than I am. Also because we are quantumly entangled, his feeling-decisions can affect me like I can affect his. Imagine he forgot to tell me that he is allergic to something specific and decides to buy something which doesn’t allow me to follow my strict recipe.

Even though I might be aware of his responsibility towards me, it is but a distraction of my ability to respond to him. Because on the quantum entangled feeling we are one(No need to look outside). 

So depending on the depths of agreements, we have made and if we stay in tune and in integrity with our feelings, there is a high chance that I will be able to sense a change in the course of events without getting a phone call or message. 

This is why in relationships and under agreements, I can not blame another for not responding, as I also know that I can’t be blamed by the person I entered in agreement with. We are physically 50%-50% part of the agreement but 100%-100% implied, connected and responsible for the agreements made.

THIS is why I want to encourage to either re-evaluate your agreements or to take, to the best of your abilities, 100% responsibility for your agreements.

And I want to bring to your awareness that We, as humans, already are in a relationship to the planet. Do you feel responsible for the planet? Or do you feel responsible to the planet?

…I would highly recommend you to be responsible TO the planet instead of for…

With love,
Alexander

So you probably are already feeling many many things from others but are taking certain decisions in your life that are(or at least were) relevant for your in-dividual physical experience. And these decisions shape as well how you feel. They bring order and beliefs, which is sometimes not relevant anymore, but they were well intended for going in an evolutive direction.

So now that we understand that there is a sense to what I feel… I can think about what I want to do next…

So your ability to translate those signals from the delta brainwaves, through your belief system, will tell you what is exactly happening with the other. That’s what psychic mediums do! They are efficient in translating those frequencies. But people, in general, have forgotten that they can do it too.